List of 20 popular bdsm fetish Acronyms that will help you understand the Terminology

Adult Acronyms – Definitions And Terminology For Fetish, BDSM, Adult

Trying to understand the world of online webcam chat rooms or online adult chat rooms, in general, can be daunting, especially when they use acronyms when discussing sessions with you.

Below we will go over the most popular words used in the adult cam world, what they mean, what the definitions are not only in the world of BDSM and fetish but also in the mainstream “Vanilla” Chat rooms and adult porn.

Having worked across many adult cam sites for many years in both Mistress and Adult vanilla, I myself have scratched my head for that few seconds trying to work out what certain words mean.

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Top 20 Adult bdsm Fetish Acronyms – List

 

  1. Sph Small Penis Humiliation

This is my favourite by far. This stands for small penis humiliation, where a cam girl or Mistress will mock you about your lack of size. From making you measure it, to having you torture it as they laugh and mock you. This is one of the most Popular requests on any BDSM/Fetish webcam site.

2.C.E.I Cum Eating Instructions –

This is another very popular request and usually entails the male getting instructions on what to do with his cum. Many will wank into a glass or condom and some enjoy even attempting to cum in their own mouths.

They want to be guided about what to do with the cum. They will jerk off into their hand, cup, condom or mouth and like to be counted down usually from 5 down to 1.

I have to say though, many of the ones I have seen on my time on webcam have been really horny for this scenario and then when they have to eat the cum they run and don’t finish the job! However, I do have slaves and sissy girls who just can’t get enough cum down their throats.

There are plenty of cum eating instructions Tumblrs around as well as many Videos of both porn and BDSM instructions.

Many of my slaves and sissy girls enjoy being blackmailed with this scenario, it’s a huge fantasy as they don’t want to admit they want to do it themselves, so, if a Mistress demands it they then have no option. Remind them they are there to obey you and that the cum and dick belong to you anyway and you are demanding they do it or you will expose them.

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Video – sissy Karen swallows real man’s cum

3. Cbt Cock and ball torture

Another favourite and very popular request on cam. I have listed here 25 ways to have a cock and ball torture session. This will give you a very good guide for different ways to abuse his cock and balls, from giving them a list of items to bring to the session ( if on webcam)to instructing them on how to use the items, what to do and for how long.

Some subs will be prepared and bring a whole multitude of things which I will list below, others will need to be taken by the hand and guided through the whole process.

A lot of my subs enjoyed the whole build up of coming to me and asking for a list of household items they could bring to the session.

Rubber bands, toothpaste, wooden spoon, candles, shoelaces, rope, small bottles of water ( to use as weights), ice, cotton buds, pegs, sandpaper, nettles, lotions, ie creams and oils, drawer and door slams, flicking it, and even telling them to buy a tens machine from the chemist (these are great and have different vibrations for CBT)

You can add in ball busting, ball stretching, needle play, urethral play, genital spanking, genital bondage. These are just a few ideas however and I will write more on each of these topics to give you a better understanding of how to use some of these implements and add to them.

Most Cbt guys are experienced and have plenty of different items available to use and they love to have their boundaries pushed. Just ask them what they have and then instruct them on what to do.

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4.JOIJerk Off Instructions

This one is a lot of fun, controlling their wanking, from edge play to a ruined orgasm to cum control, they all have their benefits. This is also known as masturbation guidance, orgasm control or wank instructions.

Tell them to wank ( sometimes they like to be shown how to wank  so this means showing them using your strapon or dildo) tell them how fast, how slow, start-stop, take them to the edge and then make them remove their hand, you can keep this going all night long and just deny them the happy ending.

I have great fun with this one, I make my slaves come in and out all night long, I send them to watch porn, I watch porn with them and make them edge for hours, and when that cock is red raw and sore, I then  have them dip it in ice so they lose that hard on and excitement feeling and then start again.

You can play this one out, you can tease them as you give them wank instructions, you can orgasm in front of them yourself and remind them you can but they can’t, you can really go all out in this scenario, they are practically on their hands and knees desperate to cum and you can just continue to deny, or you can allow them, depending on the scenario and slave you are with.

I like to count them down and put them under pressure, for example, I will explain to them I will count back from 10 and if they don’t cum on demand when I reach 1 then they must remove their hand and admit they have failed and either start again or leave with no orgasm, keeping it fun and exciting.

5. CfnmClothed Female Naked Male

I have to admit I never got asked for this one much however it is pretty much self-explanatory. He is naked while you are clothed.

This is the ultimate in female domination and shows how powerful you are over him. He will never be able to know what is underneath, you can tell him how your husband/boyfriend enjoys touching you, you can look down on him and humiliate him about how pathetic he looks naked, you can give him instructions of things to do as he sits there looking at you, never getting to see you naked.

It is about control or submission, even if it’s just symbolic. You can talk dirty to them, but they won’t ever see you naked or be able to touch you. It does not always have to be about humiliation this can be quite erotic for some people.

 

6.ATM – (no it’s not the hole in the wall – Bank) 

This stands for ASS TO MOUTH

The art of sucking a cock after you’ve been fucked in the ass with it. This can work in both the vanilla world and the BDSM world. A mainstream cam girl can ram a dildo up her ass, fuck herself with it then show you how she gives blowjobs. For bdsm, the Mistress will make her slave screw his own ass then suck it afterwards.

7. BBCBig black cock

Lots of female dominants like to use the big black cock scenario when degrading and humiliating their loser slaves. Reminding them how the Alpha the male is and how huge their cock is. This is usually used in the cuckold fantasy, small penis scenarios and sissy girl humiliation type sessions. Have a big black dildo to hand is always helpful

 

8. CDCrossdresser

I have chatted online with hundreds of crossdressers and every one of them different from the one before. Find out what they enjoy, help them pick an outfit to get dressed up in, encourage them to wear makeup and all things girlie or slutty.

Some crossdressers like to just sit and chat while dressed, others like to be instructed to suck cock/dildo, or any type of object that can be used as a cock.

Most of the crossdressers I have met enjoy the bisexual fantasy and the fantasy of sucking cock and being submissive to an alpha male.

Other CDs feel good in women’s clothing, they enjoy how the clothes feel on them and how they look and want to discuss this with you. In closing, id have to say the majority of crossdressers I have chatted with online and I am talking in the late hundreds have all wanted to be verbally abused, given tasks and love to talk about their ultimate fantasy  – Check out our – Crossdressing page for pictures

9. BDSMBondage, dominance, sadism, masochism

A domination/submission scenario where one person is the “top” (dominant) and the other, the “bottom” (submissive). Most commonly associated with female domination, this anacronym incorporates the four fundamental and staple ingredients of an S & M. It is one of the most commonly used terms in this area of the scene. Bdsm does not always have to be about pain it can be erotic play as well as roleplaying.

However, there will always be a top and bottom  –  BDSM Switch is another term used which basically means the top and bottoms can switch roles. Not every Dominant will switch the same as not every submissive will switch, however, some do like the variety

Check out –sex and submission – How to be a good submissive

10. A/B – Adult baby

Paraphilic infantilism – Roleplay where the adult wants to be treated like a child, Make him suck a dummy, wear a diaper, eat baby food, dress in adult baby grows and talk to him like a child, Some adult babies like to soil and wet their nappies and to be smacked because of this. Some enjoy verbal humiliation others like to be cuddled and loved – This is kind of a Taboo grey area in the adult world, with some cam sites not wanting it discussed on their platform.

I think when the word child or baby is involved this will always be the case, however, I have spoken to many adult babies who are grown men who just love to sit in a diaper and suck a dummy as you tell them a story

This can be commonly confused with paedophilia, however, the two scenarios are distinct and very different infantilists/adult babies do not seek children as sexual partners in any way what so ever.

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11. JOEjerk off encouragement POV

Similar to JOI (see no 4) but this one is more for use with pov tube videos where a Domme is looking at the camera and giving instructions on how to masturbate, how fast, how slow, how many strokes etc and it is as if she is giving the instructions to the viewer

12.  – ABDL –Adult Baby / Diaper Lover

This is very similar to number 10 however the person has a fetish with adult diapers and likes to wear them night and day, some like to wet and mess them, some like the feel of them or the texture. This is usually a lifestyle choice. read more on  it here HuffingtonPost

13. CP Corporal Punishment

This is physical punishment such as caning, flogging, spanking, paddling. Used mostly in real time sessions however I have had my own slaves spank themselves via webcam and made them count each slap and thank me. – CP can be anywhere on the body from back, shoulders, buttocks, and even the soles of the feet. There are some areas that you should never cane or be very careful around, you can read up on this with a simple google search.

14. SSC Safe, Sane And Consensual – 

This used mostly over the real live dungeon BDSM sessions where a safe word is given and everything is safe, sane and consensual throughout the session

15. VAVerbal Abuse -Bdsm 

Verbal abuse is self-explanatory, calling the person degrading names and ridiculing them

16. PEPower Exchange

17. OTKOver the knee

Over the knee spanking another very popular scenario in real time BDSM sessions, this is self-explanatory, the slave, sissy, sub goes over the Mistresses knee and is spanked by her bare hand on his/her bare bottom. They are made to count and thank their Mistress after every slap.

18. BBWBig beautiful women

A larger woman who is big and beautiful and comfortable with herself. Some men prefer women with curves and are not interested in stick insects.

19. C2CCam 2 cam – Cam to cam

This is the best way to go in the webcam world, watch and be watched at the same time, it is so much more fun if the cam host is able to see you and direct you as you watch her. This is really recommended  – See more on the c2c sessions  here

20.  W/S /Golden Showers-

The act of urinating on someone for sexual pleasure – Watersports is a very popular request on webcam, however, a lot of adult sites do not allow it – urophilia Is a very popular fetish/fantasy. Some people just enjoy watching someone pee rather than being peed on.

There are hundreds of websites dedicated to this subject that offer toilet videos, toilet cams, pee cams and outdoor peeing as well as watching people peeing themselves.

in BDSM it is seen as a humiliating  practice for the person giving the golden shower as well as the slave/sub/person receiving it

 

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