Femdom Humiliation

The meaning of Femdom Humiliation – Ideas, What it is & How to do it.

For so many females, femdom humiliation with degrading types of humiliation towards their partner can be a huge turn-on which makes them feel erotic and extremely powerful there is just so much emotion and activity.

This is breaking the normal way and conventional ways of a male-dominated world that we live in today and treating him in a way that is against everything we were taught as little girls can be thrilling and empowering.

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For the males that understand, accept and get pleasure from this way of domination it can be a sexual experience so strong in itself, it can cause light-headedness, an increase of heart rate, a strong sense of devotion to you and in some cases even ejaculations.

We all have heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but one way to his mind is through his penis. Treating him in a way that arouses and denies him will keep him coming back for more.

It is up to you to ensure this. His cock is directly linked to his
brain, you control one, you control the other. Always keep this very point in mind.

Humiliating A submissive the different Ways -Femdoms Power Play

When we are Humiliating a sub there are so many different ways to do this to break it down into major categories would simplify it, but the human mind is so complex that it’s not possible.

Some methods would revolve around his attire, his chores, his mind, his
body, his sexuality and/or masculinity. Crossdressing, performing chores or duties for you.

Not forgetting verbal abuse, calling him names with insults, humiliating and mocking his little penis and lack of endowment or stamina, suggesting
he is not a real man, or maybe even gay (not that there is anything wrong with that).

Any of the above-named methods can have a strong impact on a sub male That is not to say, however, that all methods will work for everyone.

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For some, a more traditional Mom domination type of punishment or scolding is much more effective, for so many others it is the thought of being made to wear ladies panties while being called a small cocked faggot will have a stronger effect.

You just need to experiment and try out different ways to find what works best for you. I  feel that for some men the best approach is the “build-up/break down” style of mental torture or anguish.

You can use this type of training after he has been in sub training for at least a minimum of a few weeks, you can then begin to implement these types of methods.

The whole idea is to keep him obeying, confused, disorientated and humble at all times, moulding him to how you want him to be.

Make sure You insult his cleverness & intelligence as it will break him down and make him feel even more pathetic

If you think he is nice looking, decently built with a normal size penis and average in bed, you can begin by telling him initially that he is good and fine and watch as his ego gets pumped up, only to be let down again.

After a few weeks you should/may begin to criticize his technique in bed, make derogatory comments about his penis size, his stamina and his desire to please you. Over the next few days, he will be worried and concerned.

Reinforce how he is stupid, weak and pathetic. Tell him you need a man who is clever with brains and not a follower like him.

Now is the time to reassure him and make him think all is well. A few days later you begin to complain about the same things again, but more forcefully.

This whole situation just keeps repeating itself until he is constantly
anxious and does everything he can to try to please you with even more enthusiasm than before.

Part of his masculinity rides on it. Some feel that in many cases, humiliating him in front of other women is important.

This could start to tie in with the fetish of “CFNM”  (Clothed Female Nude Male). When you start to questions his manhood,  tiny penis size, as well as questioning his sexual orientation when you have an audience or when your girlfriends are around.

Girlfriends will be embarrassing and exciting to him at the same time.
I believe that demanding he serves you as well as some of your girlfriends whilst naked or perhaps made to wear a humiliating outfit or even a punishment type uniform will without a doubt make him beg to submit as well as feeling powerless and left totally humiliated.

He will probably complain and protest, all the while having an erection.

 15 Femdom Humiliation Ideas To Tease Your submissive &Drive him Crazy

  • Make him Get naked & Tease him while you are fully dressed
  • Spit in his face as you  verbally abuse him
  • Make him Kiss your ass over your fetish clothes
  • Pee into his mouth and don’t let him miss a drop or he is spanked or caned
  • Make him kiss your feet and suck your toes
  • Edge his cock on and off all day long if he dribbles or cums at all then make sure he is punished severely
  • Make him clean you ass  – licking it till it is spotless
  • Put a chastity device on him and tease him like crazy, push your tits together, push your panty crotch in his face, make him sniff your fingers
  • If he does not address you properly then ruin any orgasm in an orgasm denial scenario
  • Cock and ball torture with a butt plug in his ass as you sit on his face
  • Rub his prostate gland  and then deny any  anal orgasm – Just milking that prostate gland
  • Have sex with another man in front of him and then tell him he needs to clean you up as well as your bull  ( partner)
  • Stuff your panties in his mouth after you have peed thro them and make him keep them in his mouth until further notice
  • Describe in detail your sexual desires – get yourself off in front of him and tell him verbally how he could never please you.
  • Make him wank to porn online as you watch and stop him every time he gets close in a real tease and denial session

The Signs Of Humiliation & Femdoming

The signs for any type of humiliation play is not how he is looking at you or speaking to you, but by how hard his penis grows when you say and do something humiliating towards him.

If he is erect, no matter how he protests, you know
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Moving forward with our techniques and discussion on Ideas for different humiliation tactics and techniques I would like to emphasis a couple of points.

Firstly, we must always be careful to ensure the privacy and discretion of all subs/ sissies and persons involved.

From experience I have known Many individuals and couples that have had a fantasy or desire to test the waters with public humiliation, or semi-public, but do always keep in mind, although it can be a huge turn on and exciting for you  others may feel it is inappropriate and  misunderstandings can develop into  huge issues and can create a host of problems from your community, housing, career issues and even legal problems.

Verbal insults, or mocking him in front of children can
have a long-lasting impact and confusion on them, they can’t detect the difference between “Mommy is dominant” and “Mommy hates Daddy”. A slap across the face in front of the wrong people could result in an arrest for domestic violence.

Obviously being naked in public to often can become a potential problem. When we are really aroused and in the heat of the moment in any type of public humiliation scenario can have devastating and long term implications.

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Use common sense and good judgment at all times.

Huge emphasis has always been placed on the “small penis” humiliation aspect of cuckolding. I really believe it is an amazing tool to use verbal types of insults to humble and degrade your husband/submissive. The male ego often seems to be directly attached to the relative size of his reproductive organs.

Your Bull Has a Massive Cock Your Cuck has a tiny Dick

Your lover or “bull” will have a superiority complex due to his larger than average size and much should be made of this. All Submissive males should be told and convinced that they are not nearly as big as they may
think, even if it’s not true.

My husband is above average, but after years of my telling him he is inadequate, he thinks he is small, which is what I want.

A handy mental “list” of words and comments should be kept ready at all times.

  • Pencil dick
  • tiny
  • little cock,
  • junior, etc.
  • Baby carrot
  • Stumpy
  • Little clitty
  • Wriggle your pinky at him
  • plus phrases

Anything that demeans his manhood is all used regularly. Having your girlfriends know, (or making him truly think and believe they know his little secret) about his “TINY” issues and problems really do heighten his humiliation.
Coy comments in public, shopping, eating out, really just about anywhere, will keep his penis hard, and his ego in check.

Your convincing him that you think about sex most of the time, are aware of how inadequate he is, and how grateful he should be that you keep him around for all kinky types of sex play and foreplay activity will really strengthen and help fuel his need & desire to please you.

Compare his little dick to Vegetables – Femdom Humiliation 101

I often compare his penis and testicle size to various types of vegetables and fruit in the grocery store, (small carrots for that little penis, grapes for his tiny balls)  I have also on many occasions did this when an attractive female is within earshot.

That usually gets a smile or laugh from her, and a red-faced,
mortified look of shame from him.

I am a great believer and advocate in the use of dressing my slaves up involving cross-dressing and feminization techniques and training so do use this if you want to heighten the whole humiliation side.

I do sometimes use this method and do know it’s effectiveness for humiliation and it is really a great tool for ensuring and enforcing control.

The same can also be applied when using a dildo or strap-on training.

The Prostate Gland Milking your slave – Femdom’s & Anal play

As most people will be aware, the prostate gland in  a man is
right behind a small wall of flesh and right behind the anal area & region.

Prostate milking and any physical type of inserting into this particular region will pretty much guarantee a massive erection, it does not matter at all how embarrassing he may find it.

The majority of heterosexual guys get worried and are paranoid of anything at all that could indicate a “gay” type of thing or trait, and this tactic should be used and taken advantage of with great effort.

Feminizing him, crossdressing,  forced feminization emasculating the male, and using any type of forcing or forced “gay” type of scenarios that are related activities will strengthen and reinforce the control you have, but will also make him follow your commands with no hesitation.

His mind is revolting while his penis is erupting. It’s the love/hate dynamic wherein his mind protests, but the effect it has on his sex drive
and sexual sensitive areas will always keep his craving more and coming back time and time again.

My own personal experience is that most types of safe and sane activities you can devise can be deemed a fetish or humiliation technique.

This seems to hold even truer if it is carried out in front of a beautiful and attractive female. For many different types of reasons some males will get so excited and turned on and just about burst with both a combination of humiliation, degradation and excitement at the idea and thought of being told and forced to do certain things by a group of attractive females.

As mentioned, I have had my husband clean the house nude in front of one or more of my girlfriends.

Demand that he serve everyone drinks have a small party in your house (or theirs) or if you allow it, have him provide even more intimate services to any of your girlfriends.

Massages, chores around their homes, running errands and so forth, or a bit of oral service should she desire it.

Make sure that everyone involved knows that you will expect a report back from her (or them) on his behaviour and that he will be soundly punished for any violations or infractions in proper etiquette or manners.

Better still, is to make sure that they punish him before he leaves them, and ensure that you do it again and far more severely when he arrives back home to you

Lastly, and I can not emphasis this point enough, he should be threatened that eventually he will be forced to eat sperm.

(Obviously, this would not apply to those females that prefer the more traditional domestic types of discipline only, that have no interest or desire in pursing cuckolding or other types of female humiliation and dominance.)

As mentioned above, most heterosexual males  have a
fear and anxiety of getting a label and being called “gay, poof, homo, or a fag”.

In an effort to keep him aroused, excited and on edge with nerves at all times if you mention anything to do with sucking a cock, licking another man’s balls, or eating cum loads this will have him under your finger in an instance.

There is a strong connection between fear, nervousness, anxiety and sexual arousal. He will probably develop a love/hate relationship with all that you expect and demand of him.

At a moment of extreme excitement, the first time you order him to
swallow a cum load he will be excited aroused and disgusted. As you go along and command him to do this more and more, he will associate the being “forced” aspect with his overall sexual arousal.

One way to begin this training before selecting a bull (or if you prefer the word lover), is to demand him to eat his own cum loads/ ejaculate.

This can be done in several ways.

One method is where you masturbate him into his own mouth while he is laying on his back with his legs flipped up over his head.

Another could be demanding that he must lick it from a bowl
or another utensil, some prefer a shot glass or goblet.

I went through an extremely long and kinky process of his “cum eating training” which resulted in the method that I preferred, simply sitting on his face queening) and expelling/letting it drip out of me after he has cum inside me.

It may take some training to ensure he will do this, but it can be accomplished. His struggle in being known as the cleanup guy will be offset by his need and desire to please you.

I will revisit some of this in the Cuckolding section as well as some other training and information on how to eat creampies properly from you after you have been fucked good and hard by one of your lovers/bull

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