Our Top Ideas For Female Domination
Are you a Dominant looking for ideas to use in a session? Are you wanting to spice things up in the bedroom with your partner? Are you a submissive male who wants to be dominated but hasn’t the first clue where to start or what he actually wants?
Then fear not, because here we have compiled a list of some of the most common activities in femdom and BDSM. Almost all acts can revolve around these core ideas and will be an excellent starting point for either a Dominant woman or submissive male to begin their journey.
The first thing you need to know is what kind of session you wish to have. For women, what kind of Dominatrix are you?
Are you a sensual, caring Domina who is strict but kind? Or are you a mean, cold-hearted humiliatrix who enjoys abusing her male submissive? This determines how severe each of the following acts will be. For those starting out, we suggest sensual, to begin with, and then work your way up to find a level that suits you both. You can also check out our fantasy roleplay ideas
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The List of Top Female Domination Ideas & Tips
1 — Foot Worship.
One of the most fundamental acts of any femdom session. What better way to show your dominance or submission by kissing and worshipping her feet? This can also include her shoes or boots.
Be it her shiny stilettos with the killer heels, her knee-high boots or her dirty street shoes or trainers. Also, she gets to prod him with her foot, or stamp down on him which is a huge power rush!
2 — Cock And Ball Torture
This sounds far worse than it actually is. A slight tap on the balls will cause mild discomfort but will still be hugely erotic and a turn on. Using ice cubes, heat spray, tying shoelaces around them and tapping them with a wooden spoon will also cause pleasure and pain. Work your way up to using paddles, more force, electric machines such as an e-stims or tens machine and things such as ball weights or rubbing chilli powder on the shaft.
3 — Chastity
For the ultimate control over a man, a woman should consider a chastity cage that prevents even an erection never mind an orgasm. Control the cock you control the man as they say, and when you take away his sexual relief a man will be putty in your hands and will do anything you say to gain his much-needed relief.
This is incredibly effective to male submissives who fail to listen properly or who test your patience by defying you. Simply increase the length of time he needs to remain in chastity and you will find he behaves himself.
4 — Sissy Play
Many men harbour a secret desire to be dressed in women’s clothing. From just a pair of frilly sissy panties to a full garb of stockings, high heels, knickers, wigs and makeup.
Whether he wants to wear just a pair of underwear knickers, be a total slut or be a sissy maid, sissy play is an enjoyable activity.
You can use humiliation and he can dance around or strut his stuff, wiggling his ass or he can be a sissy maid and serve her dinner, massage her feet or perform the household chores. Sissification is extremely popular, but be sure to always tell him how pretty or girly he looks. If you are going for humiliation, even just adjusting your tone has the desired effect!
5 — Small Penis Humiliation
Many men who are submissive enjoy having their cock size mocked. This does not make a lot of sense to vanilla people but for subs and Dommes, it makes perfect sense to target the area that all men are self-conscious about.
Tell him he is too small to satisfy you, compare his cock size to other men such as famous actors or measure it against small objects as well as wiggling your pinkie finger at him, or holding your thumb and forefinger close together. Even well-endowed men have been known to enjoy some SPH. A good dose of small penis humiliation cams keeps a slave in his place
6 — Impact Play
What is female domination without some impact play? Be it an over the knee spanking, a paddling, being whipped or having a crop or belt used on his buttocks, impact play is a must to be at least tried. Great for discipline!
7 — Bondage
Tie him up and he is at your mercy! You can tease the living daylights out of him when he is helpless. Torment his cock by stroking and licking it, or abuse his nipples or cock.
For a truly sadistic approach, tie him up, put porn on the tv and then leave him for 15 minutes. The frustration at not being able to wank will drive him mad and ensure that when the time comes, you will get the best sex!
8 — Orgasm Control
One of the best femdom ideas there is! She gets to decide when, or even IF, he gets to cum. After she has teased his cock, rubbed it, stroked it, licked it, tickled his balls she can wank him to the edge of orgasm over and over till he is literally begging for relief but he can be made to wait. Take a minute till he calms down then start again.
9 — Oral
One of the things women love most about being dominant is the impact it has on oral sex. She can command him to go down on her for as long, and as many orgasms, as she wants. She can keep him down there for as long as she desires, and the best bit?
She is under no obligation whatsoever to put his cock anywhere near her mouth! As the Dominant, she doesn’t need to give oral sex but she can demand it whenever she wants.
10 — Humiliation
Not all subs like being humiliated but plenty do. From mild acts such as insulting his cock size to slightly more advanced such as his ability as a provider or the traditional gender roles in a relationship (This is especially effective if she earns more money than him).
Other acts could be having him shave his legs, write humiliating slogans on his body in lipstick, being spat on or given a golden shower (being peed on).
Humiliation Is objective, so you may need to experiment and talk it over about what is acceptable and what isn’t, as well as what is actually humiliating because peoples ideas are different.
These ideas should be enough to get you started and in time, you can build on them and add your own take to them with other things you both enjoy.
You can also join a femdom webcam site which has hundreds of online Dommes and they will be able to give you a workshop in how to be a dominant or a submissive and all that is expected, as well as some activities you can try and experiment with, particularly financial domination which is not for the faint hearted!