30 Kinky Sex Ideas For a Better Sex Life

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Sex is an innovative articulation of affection and desire and a solid sexual coexistence which takes into consideration experimentation. In so far as nobody gets injured, unusual or kinky, taboo sex is, for the most part, good fun and exciting ways to test out new ideas sexually.

It’s beneficial to push limits and conquer fears. Everyone has their hard limits and pushing boundaries can be a sexy way of finding out exactly what your own limits truly are.

Below you’ll find some incredible ways, tasks, ideas and thoughts for spicing up your sexual kinky lifestyle and having loads of sexy fun where ever you may be whether it be the bedroom or outdoors – Read our lists below and feel free to comment with more ideas, we love to hear form kinksters.

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Exploring fun, hot freaky sexual things to try in bed, how to be kinky, creative and explore new wild sexual ideas. These are fun ideas to spice up things in the bedroom. From dirty, naughty sexting ideas for him/her to dirty phone chats and video chats, to watching porn together. Explore our 30 ways below for kinkysex.

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  1. Send Each Other Dirty Text Messages

Whether it is by text or email, sending each other dirty messages can be a fun and sexy way to explore each other’s limits. No matter what type of text message you send from the flirty to the extremely x rated hardcore message, exploring each other by text messages can be a good way to explore sexual ideas and fantasies. From texting each other what you want to do to each other, to what colour of panties you are wearing to how wet or hard you are. This can be exciting. It can also be used to give each other directions of what to do to yourself ie masturbation instructions via text message.are

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2. Send Naked Pictures of yourself

Send him/her your naked pictures via email or text message perhaps doing something naughty, pose in different positions, perhaps using sex toys or experimenting with other household items. Send the naked picture and show him what he has to look forward to when they get home. Send pictures of your tits

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3.Initiate Sex Outwith the bedroom 

If you are sitting in the bedroom and start kissing on the sofa, then instead of heading straight to the bedroom, how about trying to move to the kitchen, shower, bath, stairs or anywhere else. You could be even more adventurous and head out in the car to a secluded place or even outdoors in the woods. Foreplay can be prolonged and lots of teasing can make for an excellent climax, the riskier the better.

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4. Rope Bondage or Handcuffs

Yes tie your partner up and render them helpless, using ropes, cable ties, handcuffs or anything else you can find to tie their hands and legs together. At this point, they are helpless and you can tease them like mad, from forced wanking, milking, edge play for him to edge play for her oral, licking and not letting them cum. Use sex toys, and soft strokes to heighten it. Try different kinky things from fingering to anal, to face sitting, 69ing and more. You can even Learn ALL of his erogenous zones by exploring  your partner at this point

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5.Having sex in front of other people

Some people love the idea of being watched and voyeurism, perhaps you want to try dogging where people can watch you having sex in a public place, or perhaps you want to book some people to come to your house and watch you with your partner, or you could think about testing out swinging.

Either way, the whole idea  is about kink and experimenting with new sexual ideas and fantasies, so if you want to be watched as you give your wife amazing oral sex, or you want to watch another guy lick your wife out, then this is definitely one to try to heighten all areas of sexual play. Some people prefer the fantasy of this one, however, some do enjoy voyeurism as well as well as threesomes and orgies.

6. Watch Porn Tubes, Films Together

Picking a porn video to watch together can be a real horny way to get you both in the mood. Watch the video and then re-enact it or having sex and exploring each other while it is on. Watching a different kind of porn from what you would both usually watch, is another good way to try out new sexual fantasies and ideas. Exploring, each other’s bodies, teasing each other and prolonging orgasm.

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7. A Sexy Slow Massage

Massaging each other’s bodies slowly and in sensitive places can be a real turn on. It’s all about what areas you touch gently and slowly and having them relaxed, you can even talk dirty to them through this. It’s all about that end result – The happy ending . You can put so many twists on this one from

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2.Using sex toys and objects

3. Teasing them with your body as you stroke them slowly.

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8.Sexy – Erotic Roleplays – Kinky Nurse, HeadMistress, Naughty Schoolgirl/boy

This one is very popular, I mean who doesn’t enjoy a bit of roleplay. From the naughty schoolgirl to the strict headmistress/master. How about some domination/BDSM with Mistress and slave or Master and slut. No matter what type of roleplay you play out, it can be a lot of fun especially if you dress up and enact it out properly. Perhaps there is a doctor, Gynaecologist or a nurse for penis inspections that needs to examine you. You can truly explore different fantasies with roleplaying. Some really get right into this others just play about.

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9.Bathing and showering together

Washing each other in the shower or bath, especially when using soap and making them slippery and bubbly, can be a real turn on and very sensual. You can turn this one whatever way you want from sensual and teasing to kinky and dirty. You decide where you want to go with that.

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10. Sex Toys – Household Objects

Teasing your partner with sex toys, dildos, vibrators and anal beads especially the ones that vibrate and stimulate you both is another hot kinky way to have fun in the bedroom. If you don’t have any sex toys, you can use your imagination and gather some things from around the house to use. Play guess what I am using on you, if they get it right they get a reward.

11.-Blindfold Each other

having a blindfold put on you and letting your partner do whatever he wants to you can be another exciting sexual kink, just letting someone else take that control and you have no idea what is coming next is a huge turn on.

 

12- Little bit of spanking

Over the knee, spanking can be really erotic, being spanked with a paddle, hairbrush, or hand over each cheek. Remember it does not have to be painful, spanking can be gentle and erotic or painful and pleasurable. Some people prefer the pain side of it as it gets the blood flowing and endorphins going. You can use some roleplay with this one.

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13 Have phone sex with  each other

Yep call them at work or when they are at the gym or whenever, surprise them, tell them what you have in store for them when they get home, describe in detail what you are wearing, how you are touching yourself right now preparing for them, how wet you feel and how much you want to cum together. Be as explicit as possible and as kinky and imaginative as possible – Kinky sex on the phone can be a massive turn on and keep your partner on the edge all day thinking about it.

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14. Make him take your panties to work with him

Give him a pair of your panties that you have worn or not worn and text him instructions of what to do with them, describe in detail to him when you had them on, how you touched them and came in them and now give him directions on what you want him to do with them. Demand he goes to the toilets at work and carries out any instructions you give him, from smelling to licking them. Some people make their partner wear their panties to work… how kinky are you??

15. Watch Yourself In The Mirror

Being able to watch your partner going down on you via the mirror can be an amazing experience. Men are very visual and enjoy watching porn and looking at naked images, so watching via a full-length mirror can be a massive turn on to them

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16. Get a  copy of the Kamasutra

Try unique sex positions, experiment with new kinky, wild sexual positions. Positions like the bridge -the rider, the eagle, the clasp and hundreds more. Trying and inviting new sexy positions into your sex life can take you both to new heights and closeness.

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17. Record yourself having sex on Video

Get that camera rolling and record yourselves having some wild, hot freaky sex. Then play it back, be the director of your own private movie.

18.Peeing on Each Other

This can be found more in the taboo section, but watersports while having sex with each other can be a real pleasure for some people. Golden showers have been around forever. Most of my own subs/slaves want to be peed on at the end of a session. Piss play is just as hot and sexy for piss lovers as BDSM and Bondage are for BDSM lovers.

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19.Flaunt yourself and have sex on Webcam in front of other people

With hundreds of adult sites to hang out where cam to cam sex chats is all the rage, then this is up there with one of the most popular sexy ways to spice up any sex life. You can even leave adds or classifieds on adult posting sites looking for other couples to watch you as you watch them, let them direct you. Better still there are adult cam sites out there who will pay you by the minute for having sex live. So make some money and have some fun what’s not to like about that. check this out –Nothing beats camtocam online

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20. Shaving each other’s private parts –

Some people find this a real turn on, shaving their partner’s pubic areas can really get you off to a good start in the sex department. Purposely teasing each other slowly. It is a real intimate way. Getting between your legs to get as close as possible to you. Knowing how turned on and wet you are getting.

21.Hot And Cold Sensations

This can be done when one of you is blindfolded

1 Run an ice cube over their sensitive areas ie nipples, pussy lips, penis, balls and inside the ass.

2. Heat up some chocolate or some other warm tasty things and cover his dick in it the heat will get him going then start to suck him, vice versa if its male to female do the same round her vagina area. Then swap this around with some freezing cold water again. You can also use candle wax as you use ice cubes at the same time.

22. The guessing games – Get it right you get Rewarded – Porn sex games

You can do many things with this one I will list them below to give you a few ideas to get you started.

  1. Slowly write something on his body with your fingers just a word and let him guess what you have written if he gets it right he gets a reward if he gets it wrong he must be punished or humiliated.
  2. Like above but use an item from within the bedroom or room you are in, ie, a brush, pen, feather, duster, you can use just about anything. and tell them to guess what you are using to tickle them.
  3. Write something sexual down on a piece of paper, perhaps something you want to have done to you or to do to them. If they guess it right then they are rewarded with it.

23. Medical Play-Medical Fetishism

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 24- Go To A Sex Shop Together

Head on over to a sex shop and purchase a new sexy outfit, lingerie or an amazing new sex toy to use in your kinky sex play, perhaps if you can touch each other when in the shop – Go for risky

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25-Masturbate Infront of each other.

Get naked and lay in front of your partner and tell them you want them to watch you as you masturbate, rub your hands all over your body and masturbate slowly, prolonging for as long as possible. Check out 20 ideas to masturbate

26. Get a Vibrator with a remote 

I have used these as well as the electrical ones and can say they are great fun. Make your partner insert the vibrator into themselves then head out clubbing where you can press the remote to make it vibrate when he is standing at the bar, talking to friends or even as he heads to the toilet. You are in control of the vibrations. Can be used on both male and female, you could do it at the same time when you are out.

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27. Be The  Sex Slave For the Evening

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28- Play Footsie Under the Table at Restaurant

Imagine you are at a restaurant and she kicks her high heel off and starts rubbing your penis/crotch with her nylon foot, stroking it up and down? Licking her lips and giving you an indication of what the dessert may be!

29. Sex In The Hot tub/Sauna

If you use your local sports club and have a hot tub, put your hand into the water and start to rub his dick or her vagina, do this if you are in the sauna, swimming or steam room. This is very exciting and a huge turn on. Watch the reaction on their face as they get horny and want more.

30 Sex in A Public Place

This is great for those who enjoy the risky play, find somewhere public and touch each other the risk of getting caught can really heighten sex and can be far more exciting than just another romp in the bedroom. Remember this one does violate some sexual laws, but if you are careful it is really possible to pull it off.

Choose a place that is public but quiet ie a bathroom with a lock on the door, a rooftop, an escalator where you can pause the door, a hot tub when no one else is in it, mountaintop, balcony, behind bin sheds – You get the picture I hope! It is still outdoors and it is still risky and oh so much fun. Head back over to our livebdsmcams.net – site

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