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Femdom Ideas & Techniques for emasculation. Many men have a desire and deep-rooted fantasy to submit to a dominant woman. They love to let women take control and submit to them fully.
Our fem dom enjoys the idea of being bossed around, dominated, and controlled by a strong female who will humiliate, degrade and abuse them.
This could stem from childhood (and most times with a submissive male, if you trace it back you will find they probably had a domineering mother) or it could be they were bullied by a girl at school, and it has cemented the need to be controlled by a woman in them. We can play so many different types of femdom games & manipulation.
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Whatever the reasons though, many men (certainly a very high percentage) have this feeling inside them and they want to take it out of their heads and make it into a reality. Femdom humiliation has all these rules and guidelines listed
The problem though is that many men want to be dominated and indulge in female domination, but they don’t know how. Fem dom 101 is listed below
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What one person loves, another will detest. It is a minefield, especially for a newbie to the scene. You can chat and view some of our fem doms on our page here femdom cams which will give you an idea of what you can expect. Make sure to check out the femdom chat section for cruel kinky Mistresses waiting to train and own you
With our femdom ideas, suggestions & techniques on ways to emasculate your submissive. You will be ready to take full control of your submissive, slave which may also include slave contracts, slave registers, and slave certificates. This is femdom 101 with how-to lists & guides to help you enter the world of BDSM & dominance. You can also check out our masturbation section where we enjoy controlling your stroking. If you like JOI, then make sure to check our live JOI cams
Many new subs are put off by taking things to a further step. They are scared to dip their toe in the water and too ashamed to ask. If you read our fem dom list below, it will perhaps help you understand what is involved and maybe find areas that you want to dabble in. Take a look at our phone sex girls they love to take charge of you in the bedroom and describe in detail what they would do to you
They do not know where to begin their female domination journey and can’t think of how to get a foothold.
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If you are one such new wannabe slave who wants to be dominated but doesn’t know which areas he wants to try then this site will hopefully get you started.
A raft of femdom humiliation ideas that you can think about and if they interest you then you at least know where to begin and can build from there.BDSM female domination is a powerful but very interesting sexual pleasure that can be explored in so many different ways.
Even if you are an experienced sub you can maybe pick up a few new ideas to try that will prevent things from getting stale. Read on and learn more about our many different scenarios which will give you a bigger insight into the world of female domination. More adult webcam chats here
Femdom Ideas To Dominate The Submissive
1 – Verbal Degradation
A good starting place, verbal degradation will have her call you names, insult you, call you pathetic, useless, laugh at you, etc.
She can call you a pathetic pussy, a wimp, a faggot, accuse you of wanting to suck cocks or anything else she can think of while you have to sit and take it.
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2 – Small Penis Humiliation/ humiliation ideas are one of our top ones from Light to extreme
The go-to choice for femdom 101. Hit a man where it hurts the most. Many submissive males have small dicks, and it is incredibly humiliating to have them ridiculed and mocked by a woman you will never have a chance with.
She can call you maggot dick, make you compare it to chipolata sausages or biro lids, wiggle her little finger at you, laugh at it, point, giggle behind her hand or call her friends and tell them.
3 – Boot Worship
Our Femdom Ideas would not be complete without boot worship. A good starting point for both femdom in general and the beginning of a BDSM session.
To perform this task, you must be on your knees (which is always good!) and kiss and worship her boots.
As this powerful woman and dominant lady tower over you, telling you to do it better, making you start again or saying nothing and just watching and glaring.
Whatever way you do it, boot worship is a great start and will make you feel incredibly humble. From cleaning and licking dirty boots to sucking the heels to being trampled on, there are so many different ways to do boot worship
4 – Ass Worship
A humiliating task but one which helps to cement your place in her life. Kissing her rump and worshipping it, planting your lips on her cheeks will humble you.
Worshipping the part of her body she sits on, not to mention the fact you need to naturally be on your knees to perform it, makes it a big power shift act to show who is in charge and who is underlying.
As she turns around and bends over, thrusting her backside out, she can pull her panties down and make you kiss the flesh, or she can make you do it over her clothes.
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5 – Foot Fetish
One of the most popular fetishes there is, Mistress can have you massage them, paint her toenails or kiss her feet.
She can also tease you with them by dangling them at you but not allowing you to touch them and for added effect, mock you for having an erection – You can see our page on foot fetish cams or read our foot fetish story here.
6 – Forced Feminisation
This is a fantastic activity if you are a guy who likes to dress but feels guilty about it. You can do it freely because it’s not you, she is forcing you to do it.
You can even protest and resist, but ultimately she will win,
Mistress gets a huge thrill from forced feminization as she enjoys the shame and humiliation a man gets from being made to wear women’s clothing.
Forced fem can range from just being made to wear a pair of panties or a thong to being put in a dress with high heels to full-blown stockings, suspenders, panties, dress, wig, and makeup. see our sissy cams here
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7 – Cuckolding
It goes without saying that you will worship your Goddess and long to have sex with her, but as her inferior, it’s never going to happen.
You will be kept for domestic duties and for abuse only.
So by telling you all about how she has sex with real men, and you are inferior, insulting your sexual prowess, a bit of sph Camssee no 2), and making you listen to her describe her sex acts with other men.
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Some Dommes online will also have a male bull (dominant male) they can have sex with in front of you and make you watch. Cuckolding also lends itself well to fantasy roleplay
8 – Chastity
By locking your cock in a plastic cage she will own you completely. You will have to do EVERYTHING she orders you to, no matter how degrading, if you ever want to experience relief. See chastity cams page for live training
Chastity is a great way for a slave to instantly become more submissive and your total focus will be on pleasing your Goddess in order to be released to orgasm.
She will wear the key to the padlock around her neck or on an ankle chain to remind you of who owns her.
Chastity sounds crazy, but many submissive men get incredibly turned on by having their orgasms restricted by dominant females. Which is ironic really! Learn more about chastity here – What is Male chastity?
9 – Anal Training
Maybe you are interested in having dildos up your ass for your mistress’s amusement? Or maybe you are a cock lover?
Either way, your Lady will have you shoving dildos and vibrators up your slut hole and train you to keep taking bigger and bigger. Anal training works well with forced feminization. – Read about strapon training – strapon cams
10 – Puppy Play/Femdom roleplay
Be turned from a human into a puppy dog. Wear a collar and lead, crawl around, fetch dog toys, eat and drink from a bowl, and communicate only by barking and rolling over to have your tummy tickled.
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11 – Nipple Torture
They are useless on a male anyway so why not have a Femdom Mistress abuse and torture them with candle wax, clothes pegs, string, or even just her nails or pinching them and twisting them.
Men’s nipples are incredibly sensitive, and if you want pain, this is the perfect way to achieve it.
We enjoy pulling on nipples this is just one of many femdom ideas we suggest to be used in conjunction with our BDSM ideas at the same time
12 – Cock And Ball Torture
Every man on the planet’s most sensitive area is his cock and balls so for maximum pain, this is the area to target. Our femdom torture ideas from real sessions we had with our submissives.
Those sensitive balls are ripe for a slap, kick, punch or whack from a cane.
Tied to a bed, chair or st Andrews’s cross you will be exposed and vulnerable, which is torture in itself. It will only take a minute for you to be begging for mercy. Read our article on 25 ways for cock and ball torture
13 – Spanking
Also known as impact play, having your ass spanked is a huge turn-on but also massively humiliating. As a grown man, being put across the knee of a strong woman for a sound spanking is very humiliating.
She may berate you as she spanks you, twist your arm to stop you from shielding your ass cheeks, and tell you to shut up as you yelp and cry.
After you have been spanked, she will send you to the corner for an hour or two to think about just why you needed it. Before your spanking, she might make you stand in front of her and explain to her why you are about to receive it. Check out our spanking cams page for more on spanking
14 – Whipping
The thing all people imagine when they think of femdom. You could be tied to a St Andrews cross or chained to a post or by shackles to the wall. She will then take her whip to your back.
Whipping and caning are up there with femdom 101 and top BDSM and femdom ideas, so if you are a sissy or slave or just someone wanting to explore, be aware this is always on top of the list.
15 – Tease And Denial
Sometimes known as orgasm control, this is much like chastity (No 8) but instead of your cock being locked away with no access to it, it will be free and hard.
She will flaunt her boobs, legs, or feet at you, stroke your cock, wank it, rub it, gently massage the head, and maybe even suck it but will NOT allow you to cum.
You will be taken to the brink of orgasm time and time again till it stops being fun and becomes sadistic torture.
You will be begging her to stop or grant you relief but she won’t ever allow it and will instead leave you frustrated and desperate.
She decides when, or even if, you get to cum which makes this one of the most popular femdom ideas there is. Read here on 25 Ideas & suggestions for orgasm control
16 – Public Humiliation
This could range from just the thrill of wearing a collar under a polo neck to having women’s panties on right up to being led around with a collar and leash to kissing her feet in public.
If you are a crossdresser then your Goddess may make you walk around outside after dark or even go to the mall or get fuel for your car whilst fully dressed as a female.
Public humiliation is not for the faint-hearted but is a huge thrill if you have the nerve.
17 – Manners
Being made to call her Mistress, Goddess, or Lady (whichever title she goes by) after every sentence, have to ask politely and say please before you touch yourself or orgasm and say thank you if you are allowed to do them and if you mess up or annoy her in any way you must apologize profusely.
These are all examples of good manners within a femdom cams session and will make you feel much more submissive towards your superiors
18 – Humiliation
Female domination 101. The activity that every slave and Mistress will incorporate into a session.
There are many ways to humiliate a slave. She can make you kneel and kiss her feet, and supervise masturbation where she sits and watches you wank (this doesn’t sound bad, but it is!).
Having slogans written on your body (maggot dick, loser, property of Mistress X, etc), splosh where she covers you in food such as custard or baked beans, making you dance, making you sing, having you shake your cock about or anything else that will make you blush and want the ground to open up and swallow you.
Small penis humiliation, sissy humiliation, and verbal degradation are all part of the humiliation process, sometimes she will want to take videos and pictures and plaster them all over her blogs and websites.
Humiliation is a great tool for a Mistress to make her slave feel even more inferior to her. Humiliation °radation femdom ideas are a whole new article, but we have one here to give you an idea of some of our favourite
19 – Degradation
A step up from humiliation, degradation is pushing you even further down into the gutter. For subs who feel a need to be utterly degraded, you can be spat on, peed on, have her empty a condom of a real man’s cum on your face, forced to eat disgusting food combinations from a dog bowl, eat food from her boot soles, be used as a chair or having your head flushed down the toilet.
Degradation is an open-ended activity that has no limits except your own. Keep pushing your boundaries.
20 – Removed Basic Functions
Not being allowed to speak or move, having to ask for permission to go to the bathroom, wait for permission to eat or drink, not allowed to touch your penis, or even being blindfolded and having to earn the right to see.
All these are things you take for granted just now so she can demonstrate her power over you and show how much she controls and owns you by making you dependent on her to be able to do these things.
21 – Oral
This can mean either you are her oral slave required to go down on her whenever she is horny (but you do not touch yourself and she, of course, will NEVER return the “favour” for you) or you can be on your knees and sucking on a strap on or dildo.
She can, of course, compare the dildo to your own manhood and comment on how women prefer that to your little dick.
22 – Temperature Play
By using hot or cold, your Mistress can administer differing levels of discomfort to make you squirm. Ice cubes are an obvious choice for nipples or balls.
You can also use deep heat spray, cold water, toothpaste, chilli powder, etc to achieve different sensations. Mix hot and cold and even apply them at the same time for added effect.
23 – Spitting
One of the most degrading and humiliating acts in all of BDSM and femdom, being spat on by your Mistress is something that will leave you totally dejected.
As she unleashes spit on your face or body, you will be able to feel it running and dripping.
She can also make you open your mouth and then let her spit drip down for you to swallow. A very degrading experience.
24 – Splosh
The name was given to food play. Baked beans, spaghetti, custard and cream cakes are the first choice. Pouring them over your head or making you smear them all over your body, she will not be happy till you are completely covered in messy foodstuff.
25 – Mundane Tasks
Many Mistresses, especially those in live femdom cams, like to see their slaves in mundane, mind-numbing tasks to break their spirit and prove their devotion to following orders.
Things such as counting how many cornflakes are in a bowl or moving a pile of rice from one corner of the room to the other using just a pair of tweezers for example.
26 – Name Calling
Falling under the humiliation category, name-calling is a good spirit breaker for a Mistress.
Things like maggot dick, loser, wanker, shit stain, or dickless are all common. If you use an online BDSM webcam then the Dominas there have expert vocal skills in name-calling and will be able to launch a tirade on you that will make your head spin!
27 – Blackmail Fantasy
Not for the faint-hearted but an incredible rush. You can do it willingly or she can “force” you, but either way, you will hand over your address, phone number, wife’s name, her phone number, where you work, friends’ names and numbers, family names, and numbers and addresses or she can take pictures of you wearing a baby bonnet, in chastity, dressed as a woman or on your knees sucking a strap on.
Whatever you both choose, once she has these you are at her mercy. She can make you do ANYTHING and threaten to spill the beans to everyone you know unless you do as you are told.
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28 – Forced Bi
Much like forced feminization (No 6), forced bi is for those who fantasize about sucking cock or being fucked by another guy but feel guilty or ashamed.
By her “forcing” you to do it, the guilt is removed. For added effect, she can laugh at you as you suck or push your head down on her real man’s big erect dick, or make you lick his balls.
Using sex against them can be a huge turn-on to some of the subs and then denying them any pleasure
Or maybe that is too much. Instead, she can have her real man jerk off and cum on your face.
Or maybe you want to start slowly with this, in which case she can tell you about how she will make you give men blowjobs and make you tell her how much you will enjoy it. Our Mature phone sex women love to make you suck cock for them, they love to force your head onto that big meaty dick and watch you drool
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29 – Name Change
Removing your male name, something you’ve had for decades, and replacing it with something else will make you more akin to accepting your new owner.
For crossdressers, it might be a girly name like Jessica or Kandi. Or maybe she will call you spud. Or just plain old loser. Whatever it is, you can be sure you will come to detest it and dread hearing it!
30 – Forced Altered Mindset
You might like your sports and action movies, but with a forced altered mindset, she will ban all these and make you like romcoms, soaps, and reality tv.
She might make you stop drinking Budweiser or Coors and instead begin drinking dry martinis. It can even stretch to you automatically sitting down to pee or forcing you to develop a bizarre fetish
31 – Bondage
The feeling of helplessness and vulnerability is a big turn-on for submissive men so by having her tie you up and restrain you you are now at her mercy. Some pictures below of real sessions I had with slaves as well as some femdom bondage ideas
This is an incredibly nerve-wracking place to be. Bondage can be tying your hands and/or ankles together, tying you to a bed or chair using a St Andrews cross, or even a set of stocks.
We have hundreds of male bondage ideas for you to participate in within one of our sessions. Self-bondage is also an area all of our Mistresses are well-versed in.
Items to use can be scarves, handcuffs, shackles, rope, or string. Your online owner will give out all the femdom instructions as to what will be needed. check out the femdom chat rooms for more kinky chats
32 – Punishments/femdom instructions
An important part of any female domination journey. Being set tasks is one thing, but there need to be repercussions if they are not done properly.
She can, and will, administer punishments as she sees fit. These can be reasonable to utterly unreasonable.
One of the most common is for a slave to be punished for what every male slave dreads. Are you ready for your Femdom instructions?
An unauthorized erection. Other punishments can include an over-the-knee spanking, loss of speech or bathroom privileges, being put in chastity, not being allowed to stand or having to write multiple lines of the same thing (for example “I am a useless slave and must try harder” 3000 times). see our femdom cams for more
33 – Face Slapping
Making you kneel in front of her or stand, she will have you keep your hands by your side as she slaps your face.
Taking her time to build the fear in your stomach, she will meticulously slap you harder and harder. She can also laugh at you as you stagger from her blows.
34 – Temporary Tattoos
Definitely not for everyone but for those who want to go the whole way you can get a temporary tattoo saying something like “Property of Mistress”, “Cum sucking cuckold”, “Loser” or anything else you both agree on.
35 – Leather/ PVC/ Rubber Fetish
So there you have it. Femdom ideas that we hope will get you started and allow you to enter the door into the amazing world of BDSM.
Female domination is a huge market, and if you are a submissive male then there is a Mistress out there you can serve, obey and be abused by.
What you like and what parts you want to participate in depends on your own limits and your own parameters. There is no rule which says you must like everything, but it is a good idea to try most things and see what “fits”. Fetish cams
Hopefully, this list has given you some things that you think you want to try.
A really good starting place for new slaves is on a live femdom cams site. Hundreds of online Mistress Dommes can ease you in, hear your desires, coax you to reveal all then take you on your journey.
All good Dominas are not man-hating ball busters and are actually patient, understanding and support a male need to submit. The key is communication.
Open up and tell her what you like, what you don’t and what you want to try. She isn’t a mind reader, but you will get a lot more out of it if you tell her everything and then let her work her magic.
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What is femdom?
Fem dom is really a term used in BDSM it stands for female dominance and is used in the BDSM lifestyle. It is where the female is the dominant one, and she will have a slave/submissive who is her servant and he must obey her.
It is also connected to the other word Dominatrix which stands for a female Dom.
Femdom can range from really severe to sensual type of activities
Female dominance actions might include but are not limited to the following: Check out the Mommy Kink page
- Pegging
- Bondage
- Strapon Play
- Masturbation
- Cock & ball torture
- Humiliation
- spanking
The traditional outfit may include:
- Leather
- Stilettos
- Pvc
- Rubber
- Thigh-high boots
- Catsuits
- Rubber outfit
- Basques
- Seamed stockings
- Garters
Why Do Men Like Femdoms?
Various reasons and every submissive is different in why they like stronger females but I will list some of the reasons below
- They like to have someone else control them & make decisions for them, especially if they have a powerful job where they have to make decisions themselves all of the time, they like the idea of someone else doing that for them.
- Guidance a dominatrix will provide guidance
- They enjoy being submissive and serving a stronger female
- They like the outfits that femdoms wear & enjoy how powerful she sounds.
- It may be a fetish, sexual desire or fantasy they have had for a long time and they want to indulge.
- For some, it could relate back to having powerful females in their childhood.
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Femdom punishment Ideas
Here are a few more ideas for femdom punishments for your submissive males, some tasks, some scene ideas, ways and how to’s in domination scenarios both online and offline. From mild to extreme to even wild ideas. Read on and learn some new ways for femdom punishments.
- Make him wear a chastity device and sign the contract, but part of that contract is that he will need prostate milking
- Make him wear a slave collar with the word slave on it
- Don’t allow him to speak at all and make sure he stands in the corner for corner time
- Spanking makes him spank himself and count them
- Demand he wears slave bells that ring every time he moves
- Tell him to wear panties to work and around the house
- Pick a food or drink you know he hates and make sure he gets it daily
- Make him edge his cock but don’t allow an orgasm
- You could order him to do naked exercises and star jumps
- Tell him daily why he disappoints you and makes you angry
- Tell him to eat his food from the dog bowl
- Use a cat litter tray for doing the toilet
- Make him become your own human toilet
- Demand he counts a cup of rice
- Make him lay down on a jaggy mat naked and move around on it
- Nipple clamps on a daily basis
- Make him pee in his boxers but he must keep them on all-day
These are just some of the femdom punishment ideas & techniques that we use on a daily basis with our submissive slaves. We will continue to update our femdom 101 blog and websites to give you more suggestions and tips to use in any session you may have with your own subs.
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