BDSM Humiliation Ideas, Techniques & Suggestions For Kinky Training Both at Home or on Cams
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Our lists below of humiliating tasks will give you some kinky ideas on how to humiliate a sub. We also have some excellent pictures of real sissy girls, subs, and slaves.
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If you are a female dominant, then here are 50 ways for you to humiliate your slave on cam.
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We will also cover some of our sissy humiliation tasks & ideas and look at the whole BDSM humiliation in the bigger picture.
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1 – Foot worship.
Shove your feet up close to the webcam, or place it on the floor for a worm’s eye view, and then make him demonstrate how he would kiss your feet, lick them and suck your toes.
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2 – ASS WORSHIP.
Turn around, bend over and make him demonstrate how he would kiss your ass and worship it. One of the most powerful forms of humiliation, you should make him plant kisses on each cheek, wiggle them and slap them gently.
Grabbing your ass cheeks and jiggling them in his face with his nose buried in your backside is also a good idea.
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3 – CFNM –
Making him stay naked while you are clothed is femdom webcam 101. The clothed female and naked male are always required, and being nude in front of a cruel Mistress will make him humble and subservient.
Don’t let him cover his privates to add to his humiliation. This is just another one of our top humiliation fetish ideas. From kink to ideas on how to degrade, we find CFNM a really good way to make him feel uncomfortable
4 – SPH.
The best way to hurt any man is to ridicule his dick size. All men want to have big cocks to pleasure a woman, so insult him about how small it is. Lay it on him and be as brutal as you can. sph cams here
Make him measure it against baby carrots or biro lids and laugh and point at it. Be sure to tell him no woman wants dicks as small as his This is undoubtedly up there with humiliation 101, one of the most popular requests from any slave cam chat session.
5 – FORCED FEMINISATION.
Make him dress as a woman. Who cares how humiliating it is for him? Dress him in stockings, suspenders, panties, a frilly dress, and a wig with full makeup. Make him mince around and curtsey to you. Tell him how much of a pretty girl he is and snigger at him when he curtseys to you. – Humiliating Slaves
6 – ANAL TRAINING.
Make him insert dildos, vibrators, or cucumbers up his ass. Make him stretch that fuck hole to the max for you. Train him to receive cocks for you so you can pimp him out. Another great femdom humiliation idea is anal play and calling the submissive your bitch
7 – PUBLIC HUMILIATION.
Make him go out in public dressed as a woman, or pump gas wearing just panties or make him walk to the end of his street naked. Some femdom public humiliation ideas –
Go swimming, but he has to wear a swimming costume or bikini
Must Masturbate outside ( tricky but can be done)
Driving naked from the waist down
Walking around the supermarket with a sign on their back ( you can get imaginative with this one)
Make them go to the checkout at the supermarket, a busy one, and buy a cucumber, latex gloves, ky jelly and a condom _ receipt proof is needed, and no other items should be on that receipt.
To go into a lingerie store Like Ann Summer and tell the Assistant you need to buy the biggest dildo and butt plug and some skimpy panties.
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8 – CHASTITY.
Become his online chastity keyholder and lock his cock away in a plastic cage, and cut off all his sexual relief. Make him beg, plead and grovel to be allowed to cum. You can continue to talk sex chat with him and turn him on, but he can not orgasm.
Then deny him anyway and laugh at him as his face drops into a crestfallen look. The ultimate in orgasm denial. If you are looking for more ways to incorporate jerk-off instructions online then check out our link and see for yourself the many different ways to have an orgasm control cam show
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9 – ADULT BABY.
Make him wear a diaper and maybe a baby bonnet. Have him suck on a pacifier. Make him go number 1 or number 2 in his diaper and then sit in it. Talk to him in baby speak and make him respond in kind.
10 – SPEECH DEPRIVATION.
Forbid him from speaking. Don’t let him utter one word and instead make him grunt. For added humiliation, have him carry a squeaky dog toy and squeak once for yes and twice for no.
I enjoy using my techniques of verbal Humiliation at this point – I raise my voice, and he can only squeak back to me as I call him every name you can imagine.
11 – ORGASM DENIAL.
Make him wank and edge over and over, but don’t let him cum. Make him stop just at the edge and watch him crumble in tears and beg and plead to be allowed to orgasm.
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12 – COLLAR HIM.
Make him wear a leather slave collar and snap a padlock on it. Make him feel owned, and point it out to him. For added humiliation, make him wear a pink one!
13 – PIMP HIM OUT.
Make him submit an online profile to be pimped out to horny guys like a cheap fuck or a slutty mouth to suck off random strangers.
14 – BOOT WORSHIP.
Show him how he would lick every inch of your leather thigh-high boots. Tell you how beautiful they are and how much he adores them.
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15 – CBT.
Any man’s most treasured possession is his junk, so making a male slave abuse them on a cock and ball torture webcam session is a humiliating experience. Slapping them, punching them or clipping clothing pegs to them.
16 – WRITE TO HIMSELF.
Have him write humiliating slogans on his body in lipstick or marker pen. Things like “small cock loser”, “Cum slut”, or “I am a sissy faggot”
17 – BLACKMAIL.
Take pictures of him and then threaten to show them to the world by posting them online.
18 – FINANCIAL DOMINATION.
Make him give you all his money and leave him nothing to live on for himself. He will need to survive on basic foods with little heat or electricity. The very best findom cams here
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19 – SING.
Make him stand and sing to you. This is even more humiliating if the song has actions. I’m a little teapot is an especially good one for this.
20 – TAN LINES.
Make him wear a bra and then sunbathe all day. The outline of the bra will be extremely humiliating for him to have, so be sure to point it out during your femdom webcams session constantly. He will also find it humiliating trying to change at the gym.
21 – FEMALE CLOTHES.
Make him wear a female blouse to the office or a pair of panties or a thong that constantly rides over his trousers. Have him take pictures of him at work to show you. All his colleagues will laugh at him. Hilarious to you!
22 – SPLOSH.
Make him pour cold custard, cream, or milk over himself, or have him splash pies and cakes into his body and crush them till he is covered in food. Then make him eat it all up
23 – FORCED BI.
Force him to watch gay porn and tell you how much he wants to suck their cocks or have them fuck him. Make him be on his knees and worship their male bodies and how he wants to take their spunk down his throat. Make them visit a shemale cams girl click here to view
24 – BODY COMPARISON.
Show him pictures of muscle-bound hunks with tans and rippling biceps, and then make his comment on his own flabby, balding, sweaty pasty physique.
25 – SENSORY DEPRIVATION.
Make him plug his ears so he is deaf, and then shout and insult him and he won’t have a clue what you are saying about him or have him wear a blindfold and then do things to leave him wondering what you are up to. It is especially humiliating if you make him listen to you masturbate and orgasm while he can’t see and/or hear you
26 – FORCED FOOD EATING.
Make him pour dog food into a bowl and then eat it from the floor. Or custard and spit. Any disgusting combos you can think of are humiliating for your sub to consume, so be creative. For added humiliation, make him beg to eat it and thank you afterwards.
27 – DROOLING.
Make him attach a clothes peg to his tongue and then talk to you till he is drooling all over himself. Then make him talk some more.
28 – MOUTH SOAPING.
A good one for slaves who answer back. Make him place a bar of soap in his mouth and hold it. Within minutes the taste will make him screw his face up. Make him hold it for 20 minutes. For added effect, make him rub the soap along his tongue or against his teeth.
29 – BODY FOOD EATING.
Have him smear peanut butter or mayonnaise all over his ass and his balls. Then make him smudge it in and then scoop it off and eat it. Laugh at him as he gags.
30 – DOUBLE DOMINATION.
Have another strict dominatrix enter your session, and you can laugh at him and make him perform for you.
Give him contradicting commands that are impossible to please both of you. Having two beautiful women laugh and humiliate him is extremely degrading. All femdom cams
31 – TOILET CLEANING.
Make him lick the toilet with his tongue or use his toothbrush to scrub it spotless.
32 – TOILET PERMISSION.
Make him ask you for permission to use the bathroom. Have him text or enter your private BDSM cam online room and beg for permission to go pee.
33 – PUPPY PLAY.
Make him stay on all fours and act like a dog. Make him yelp or bark but never speak. Have him throw a toy, then fetch it and beg for food. Make him roll over on his back for a tummy tickle.
34 – BUTT PLUG.
Make him wear a plug-up his ass at all times. Make him stand up and laugh at him as he gingerly tries to sit down.
35 – BUTT PLUG-SUCKING.
After the plug has been up to his ass for a while, make him suck on it and lick it clean.
36 – SUPERVISED MASTURBATION.
Make him kneel in front of you and jerk off. Lean in close and insult him about his cock size and pathetic appearance. Call him a wanker and how disgusting he looks. Laugh as he can’t perform or if he gets soft. related:-masturbation humiliation
37 – CUM EATING INSTRUCTIONS.
Have him ejaculate and then lick up all his mess. His hand, a plate, or whatever. Or make him do it over a meal and then eat it all up. see the CEI cams here for real cum eating instructions
38 – CORNER TIME.
Force him to stand with his nose pressed in the corner. Make him stand there for ages and ignore him. Especially effective if he has just been spanked and his cheeks are burning.
39 – HEAD SHAVING.
Get him to shave his head completely bald. Have him shave off ALL his head hair till it is bare. Then laugh at him and point out how stupid and ridiculous he looks. Make him agree with you
40 – TEMPORARY TATTOOS.
Have your male slave get a tattoo with your name or that you belong to him. Or even just something humiliating like “cock lover.”
41 – SISSY PANTIES ONLY.
Get him to burn all his male underwear and jockeys and make him only wear women’s underwear. The sluttier, the better! see the sissy cams here
42 – SIT DOWN PEEING>
Make him sit down to pee at all times. Never allow him to stand up. This is a very humiliating experience for a male to be made to pee like a woman.
43 – FORCED ORGASM.
The opposite of orgasm denial, when he has cum, keeps him wanking. Don’t let him stop and make him get hard again straight away and cum again. Repeat till he is crying and begging to be allowed to stop.
44 – DiLDO ONLY ORGASM.
Don’t let him touch his dick. Instead, make him shove a dildo up his ass and massage his prostate till he ejaculates.
45 – RUINED ORGASM.
Don’t let him cum properly. Make him get to the point of no return and then take his hand off as he begins to spurt. You will piss yourself laughing as his face drops while his orgasm slips away without him getting any satisfaction.
46 – WATCHED ORGASM.
Deny him the right to touch himself and instead make him sit on his hands and watch as you enjoy a nice, long wank yourself. Make him sit the whole time till you cum loudly
47 – IGNORE HIM.
The whole time he is in your private femdom cam room, don’t acknowledge or speak to him. Make him sit in silence while you file your nails or read a magazine.
48 – CUM CUBE.
Have him cum into an ice tray and then freeze it. Next session, make him take them out and then suck on them slowly till it is all gone
49 – NAME CHANGE.
Change his name to something humiliating such as spud, spot, twat, or cocoa. Or even a woman’s name, such as Kimberly or Nikki. Have him write it down and practice signatures with it
50 – BLOWJOB TRAINING.
Have him get a big rubber dildo and then show you how he sucks dick. Make him practice for hours until he is a good little cock sucker. Be sure to tell him how stupid he looks and what a good little cock sucking whore he is becoming.
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50 ways to humiliate your slave on a webcam. You can combine or add to them, but any of the above scenarios will heap humiliation and degradation on a male slave. These are some of our top femdom humiliation ideas to use in a session.
You can use many different online webcam sites or even instant messenger to test out some of our theories; we have listed what we believe to be the best site. However, you can use services like Skype, yahoo, Kik, Facetime, Instagram, snap chat and Facebook even MSN if it is still around these days.
If you are a dominant female, they are the building blocks of a live humiliation webcam session.
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Don’t forget to check out some of our male humiliation pics and sissy pictures and see just how extreme, sadistic and evil we can be on cam, in real life, via phone chat, and in text chat. We have some fantastic creative ideas that can be twisted into your own, with your edge.
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How To Humiliate A Submissive
There are so many femdom humiliation ideas that the only limit is your imagination.
When it comes to webcam humiliation, then there is nothing stopping you from going as far as you want, and there is no end to ways to humiliate a sub.
As well as the top 50 above, other online femdom ways can be administered to the poor, helpless sub.
For example, what about being made to drink from the toilet?
Your Mistress can drag you in by the ear or collar, pull you to your knees in front of the toilet, and shove your head in, ordering you to drink the water in the bowl.
She may drop the lid on you for extra degradation or make you stay with your head in the pan for a while.
Other add-ons can be ripping up bread or other foodstuffs and making you eat it from the toilet water (no hands, of course!) or for total degradation, one of the most humiliating slave tasks there is to be ordered to lap up the toilet water after she has urinated and not flushed. One of the most extreme, disgusting, and degrading sub-humiliation acts going.
If you are a slave cam, then one thing you need to get used to is femdom insults.
Some of the live Mistress webcam Dommes on this site are the most acid-tongued, cruel, heartless and sadistic mean bitches online you could ever fear to be under the spell of.
They will think nothing of ripping your self-esteem to shreds by attacking your manhood, lack of sexual technique, going into detail about how much of a failure you are, or even ripping into your wife and calling her names for having the idiocy to marry a tosser like you.
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What about eating food off the floor? Mistress can rip a banana, bits of bread, pieces of chocolate, crackers, cheese or anything.
She can then order you to get your head down and eat every morsel. For added degradation, she may step on it with her boots and make you lick it from her boot heel, or in the worst case scenario; she might chew the food first, then spit it on the floor for you to then eat.
Maybe she will throw it in the bin and make you eat it. Or maybe she will force BDSM starvation on you and not let you eat for days on end and then have you watch as she eats a delicious salad before she shows you her throwing what she doesn’t eat in the garbage.
Or how about having you jerk off through your trousers with no boxers on?
It won’t take long for pre-cum to leave a big damp patch, and then when you are granted permission to cum (which you will be forced to beg for even though you might not want to since you know what is coming!), you will end up with a wet spot right in the crotch of your trousers or sweats.
You will then be made to keep them on all day, even if you go out in public.
She might also forbid you from washing them, and then next time you visit her for a session, have you suck on that dried-in salty cum stain.
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It is not bad enough that you are left penniless with not even enough money to buy food or put your heating on, but these mean financial Mistress Dominas will make you beg to take your money.
They will sit haughtily and listen to you plead and beg for them to take the last of your money.
Or she may march you down to an atm and make you withdraw money and shove you out of the way when the notes are dispensed and snatch them from the machine.
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How about if she calls you at 1230am and makes you stand naked, freezing and tired in front of your webcam so you can see how comfy and cosy she is in her luxurious bed?
Maybe she will let you go back to sleep; she will make you stand there all night and watch her sleep.
It is up to her.
Forced exercise is good for humiliating tasks, especially for overweight slaves. As you huff and puff and gasp for air, she will bark at you to up the pace, keep going and “move your fat ass”.
They will make you go topless, so your man boobs and belly flop are about uncovered and wear shorts at least two sizes too small.
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Kinky Foot slave humiliation is always a busy section in the webcams area. The idea of a girl trampling on a slave with her bare dirty, or sweaty feet can be a massive weakness for some of our slaves, or when the Mistress makes you sniff and lick your own feet.
how to humiliate your slave is a question we get asked a lot, especially in the webcam world where new Mistresses want to start in the whole power exchange and domination arena.
They ask us what is the best ways to humiliate our submissive. how do you keep them guessing all the time?
Is humiliation a fetish, and is it part of BDSM? We are going to answer all of these questions below, so do read on. By the time you have finished this article, you will have an amazing understanding of the best ways to degrade and dominate your webcam slave or sissy online in a live session or even in a cam-to-cam show.
Sissy Humiliation Tasks
No matter what humiliating a sissy is top of most Fem dom’s agendas, and they know what they are doing regarding tasks, assignments & instructions. Sissy slave training is high up amongst the favourites.
Let’s look at a list of some sissy tasks that can be used both online and offline.
- Make them dress up so slutty, then parade themselves outside
- Give them an alpha males cock to suck
- Make sure they swallow cum loads every day
- Send them shopping dressed in their sissy outfit
- Draw all over their body, writing insulting names about themselves
- Make them pee their panties and keep them on all-day
- Butt plug in the ass all day, even at work
- Send them out to scrub other people’s houses naked
- Teach them how to self-suck so they can swallow their loads
- Make them wear a tampon up their ass
- Make them stand in front of your friends naked for inspection
- Splosh them, or make them cover themselves in gunge
- Tell a shop assistant they are a sissy girl and in to buy some sissy panties. Can she help
- Make them dip their cock in yoghurt pots, and cum in them, then swallow it up
- Do a sexy dance for you and your friends.
- Work the streets as a prostitute or in a brothel
- sit down when peeing if allowed to pee in the toilet
- beg for enemas but be out shopping when you have just had one, if you mess then you have to walk around like that
- Have a time of the month that Mistress decides, and you must wear a tampon up your ass covered in red sauce for a week
- Be made to wear a diaper to work. home bed, life
These are just a few tips and instructions to use on how to humiliate a sissy. We will add more to this list as time progresses, as we have hundreds of ways to share with you.
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Having hundreds of online cam slaves, we dominate, degrade, abuse & use every day; we made this list up for the subs to take to their Mistress to use on them or for the Dominatrix to use with her webcam slaves.
He must at all times eat from the floor or dog bowl
Corner time to stand in the corner facing the wall naked with chastity on
Draw all over his body, writing degrading comments about himself ( like his lack of size) or how he is a loser, cocksucker etc.
Dress him up and force him into ladies’ clothes
Put pegs all over his cock and balls/ or over her clit and lips
Put pegs on his/her nipples
Wear a bit plug coupled with anal stretching and training
Edgeplay tasks where The dominant one controls the wanking and clit rubbing
crawl around the floor and bark like a dog
Pee sitting down
Wear wet cummed in boxers and pants all-day
Send pictures or videos to Mistress of all tasks that have been completed
Walk around in high heels for an hour, no sitting down
Shave your pubic hair
cum in a condom and then swallow it
Eat food that you hate
Count a cup of cornflakes or rice while wearing a butt plug
That should get you started. You can also do certain things for the Dominant person, i.e. update her blogs and social media, go shopping for her, foot worship and tell her over and over again how wonderful she is.
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Humiliation Sex Ideas
Sexual humiliation ideas are another great place to have kinky fun both online and offline; you could add in things like bisexual activities demanding they suck a cock, demanding they take a strapon or have sex with someone they are not attracted to; you could also involve the cuckold fantasy scenario with this.
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Don’t worry if you are a Male dom Looking to humiliate a cam girl. We have some ideas & suggestions for you as well; we list below some top ideas, suggestions, and tips on how to humiliate, degrade and dominate webcam girls online. Read some of our female humiliation ideas below
- Make her wear wet panties when serving you
- Make her wear nipple clamps
- Ensure her two holes are always full
- Tie her up or teach her self bondage
- Spanking – Make her spank herself with a slipper or belt
- Demand she wears a ball gag
- Make her gag on the biggest dildo she has
- Orgasm control lets her run herself to climax, and when she is close, make her stop – Denie her an orgasm
- Verbally abuse her, tell her she is your slut, whore, bitch
- Tell her you want daily pictures of her with her legs spread wide and pussy open for inspection
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Understanding the psychology behind bdsm humiliation
Humiliation in BDSM is not simply about belittling or demeaning someone; rather, it is a consensual act that involves power play and role reversal. The experience of humiliation is unique to each individual, and it can be used to increase sexual arousal, explore desires, and build intimacy. Some BDSM humiliation ideas include verbal teasing, physical degradation, and public humiliation.
These can involve various forms of play such as pet play, age play, or exhibitionism. However, it is important to note that consent is a vital component of BDSM and any activities that involve humiliation must be negotiated and agreed upon beforehand.
The psychology behind it is rooted in the idea of achieving control and surrender simultaneously. Those who enjoy being humiliated crave the feeling of being vulnerable and having their power taken away while still being in control of the situation. Similarly, those who enjoy inflicting humiliation do so because of the power they hold over the other person and the sense of dominance it brings.
Dom/sub roles in BDSM humiliation
There are various ways to incorporate humiliation into BDSM play, but it ultimately comes down to what the individuals involved are comfortable with. Some examples may include verbal degradation, public humiliation, dehumanization, objectification, and physical humiliation.
It is crucial to establish boundaries beforehand and always have a safe word to ensure that both parties are comfortable and never go beyond their limits. BDSM humiliation ideas can range from simple tasks such as forcing the sub to crawl on all fours, wearing a collar, or presenting themselves naked.
More complex examples might include forcing them to act out embarrassing scenarios or perform sexual acts in public. The most important aspect of it is the aftercare.
After a scene of humiliation, the sub may feel vulnerable and exposed, and it’s essential for the Dom to show care and compassion towards their subs.
To sum it up, BDSM humiliation is a complex and powerful tool that can add a level of spice and excitement to Dom/sub dynamics if done appropriately. Communication, trust, and boundaries are crucial for a healthy and fulfilling BDSM experience. The sub should always feel respected and secure, and the Dom should never cross boundaries or engage in behaviour that is non-consensual or degrading beyond the agreed-upon limits.